Individuals who try to “insulate” themselves by stirring up communities using others manipulatively often exhibit traits associated with manipulative personalities. They may use tactics like “triangulation” to avoid responsibility or get others to take sides.
Possible terms to describe such behavior:
- Social puppeteer or manipulator: This term highlights their tendency to control others and situations like puppets.
- Covert aggressor: This describes someone who uses subtle manipulation tactics to gain advantage or control.
- Toxic: This is a broader term indicating harmful or damaging behavior.
Personality traits often associated with this behavior:
- Narcissistic traits: Grandiosity, lack of empathy, and a need for admiration can fuel manipulative behavior aimed at gaining control and attention.
- Machiavellianism: Characterized by a cynical worldview and a willingness to use manipulation for personal gain, this trait can explain their use of others to achieve their goals.
- Lack of empathy: Individuals who manipulate others often lack empathy and disregard the impact of their actions.
Tactics they might employ:
- Triangulation: Bringing a third party into a conflict or situation to shift blame or create conflict between others.
- Gaslighting: Making someone doubt their own reality through manipulation.
- Exploitation: Taking advantage of others for personal gain.
It is important to remember that these are descriptive terms based on the behavior you’ve described. Diagnosing someone with a personality disorder should only be done by a qualified mental health professional.
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